Why does my cat lick me then bite me?

An age-old question, why do cats lick then bite? It can be hard for humans to understand how their affection could turn to aggression so quickly, however, understanding this behaviour can strengthen the relationship between a cat and their owner. The dual action of licking and biting is part of a cat's instinct and is one way they communicate with us, without using cat noises or sounds. In this article, we will explore the reasons why cats lick then bite. 

Understanding cat behaviour

Why does my cat lick me then bite me? There are many common cat behaviours and communication methods to be aware of. Biting is one way for cats to communicate their feelings to us without words. Understanding your cat’s behaviour is the best way to get along with them better. 

• Play and Exploration: cats love to play and explore their surroundings, this includes play-hunting indoors. They also love to climb, which is why they adore cat trees.
• Kneading: cats knead us to show love and affection, this is something they learn to do as kittens. When they are nursing from their mum, the kneading action helps stimulate milk production so in adulthood repeating this action is comforting and affectionate.
• Purring: cats generally purr to let us know they are content.
• Growling / Hissing: this is a vocalisation used to show aggression or fear. 
• Rubbing: cats rub against people with affection to gain their attention and leave their scent on them, marking them as their own.

Reasons why cats lick and then bite

Why does my cat lick me and then bite me? There are several reasons why your cat may show you affection and then bite you. The headers below will help you decode their needs effectively. 

Overstimulation

Why does my cat lick me then bite me when they are overstimulated? Cats can become overstimulated and will bite to let you know they are experiencing sensory overload. This is a physiological response to touch, and it's not related to the cat's overall temperament. Overstimulation often happens when you pet them. You may also notice other signs such as a swishing tail, dilated pupils, tense muscles and their ears going back. Back off and give them some space to cool down!

Play behaviour

Why does my cat lick me then bite me during playtime? Biting is also a play behaviour in cats, this usually manifests as nips during playtime. It’s your cat’s way of escalating playtime. Make sure to keep them mentally and physically stimulated with different types of toys you can use from a distance. Focusing their energy on toys instead of you is key! 

Attention-seeking

Why does my cat bite me then lick me for attention? Cats will also bite to gain your attention, they usually direct this behaviour at their favourite member of the family when they do not feel seen or heard. This can sometimes be jarring for the owner. However, this is a natural cat behaviour. Playing with your hands or feet when they are kittens can encourage this behaviour. 

How to respond when your cat licks and bites

What can I do when my cat bites me then licks me? Make sure your cat has had a long play session with their favourite toys, ones that can be used from a distance! We recommend laser toys or puzzles you can put treats into. Chatting to your pet and generally paying them attention when they seek it can also minimise this behaviour. 

Positive reinforcement (using treats to reward good behaviour) may help. Stopping the interaction, and removing the attention by ignoring the cat immediately when the undesired behaviour occurs is another great way to get a handle on this sort of biting. 

When to seek professional advice

When should I seek help over biting and licking behaviours? If biting becomes very aggressive or you notice a sudden change in your cat's mood and overall behaviour, you can always speak to a feline behaviourist. You can also take your cat to the vet for behavioural advice. 

Why does my cat lick me then bite me?- Summary

Why does my cat bite then lick me? Generally, this is a normal cat behaviour that cats use to communicate their wants and needs with us. It usually means they are overstimulated, feeling playful or looking for attention. If biting ever becomes aggressive and frequent there is lots of help available, just contact your local vet for advice. 

Looking to learn more about how cats communicate with us? Check out our other article on tail movement. 

Why does my cat lick me then bite me? - FAQs

Why does my cat grab my hand and bite me?

Cats biting then licking their owners is normal cat behaviour, it usually means your cat is overstimulated, feeling playful or looking for attention. Make sure to keep your cat stimulated with their favourite toys. If biting ever becomes aggressive and frequent, you can speak to a feline behaviourist or your vet for more advice.

Why does my cat randomly bite me while purring?

Cats biting then licking their owners when they purr is normal cat behaviour, it usually means they are overstimulated, feeling playful or looking for attention. If biting ever becomes aggressive and frequent, you can speak to a feline behaviourist or your vet for more advice.

Why does my cat lick and bite my mouth?

Cats biting then licking their owners when they purr is perfectly normal, it usually means they are overstimulated, feeling playful or looking for attention. We advise that you speak to a feline behaviourist or your vet for more advice if biting ever becomes aggressive and frequent.

What does it mean when a cat bites and then licks you?

Cats biting then licking their owners is a normal cat behaviour, it usually means they are overstimulated, feeling playful or looking for attention. If it becomes aggressive and frequent you can speak to a feline behaviourist or your vet for more advice. Make sure to keep your cat stimulated with their favourite toys.